QotD: Family History

Well having a Large family is interesting enough for me my mom's the 2nd eldest child from 9 siblings and I'm the 4th child from 5 siblings, my mom is a Javanese and my dad was a Sundanese, I used to be told by my dad that his mom was the daughter of the high rank nobility in West Java by the name of Raden Wijaya but since my grandma from my dad's side chose to marry a commoner she didn't get her title as Raden too.

Anyway my dad came from a rich family while my mom came from a poor family, my dad's family didn't like my mom and her family but I guess Love conquers all, they got married eventhough my dad didnt get alot of inheritance from his parents and his brothers and sisters kind of cut him out from their family and now my grandma (my mom's mother) is sick and she turned out to have some lands to be inherited to her 9 kids and I heard my mom's siblings are now fighting over it, my family (me and my siblings) learnt from my dad, I know my dad left us some land, but I'm not sure why we never fight over it, who's going to get the big portion or how are we going to divide it among us, coz we learnt from my dad when he never even ask for anything from his family and he even returned back the money he was given as his portion when his mom passed away. I dont care who is going to get a house or a land, as long as my family still stick together and always be united, One and help each other.